The reality of submission means:
* putting your Master first in every moment, not just in every scene.
* giving up choices -- bit by bit -- of what to wear, what to eat and how free time will be spent and then discovering each act of submission helps you give even more.
* understanding you can no longer hide negative emotions or problems behind socially-acceptable excuses, because he will hear only honesty as he seeks to know your state of mind.
* learning that the phrase "stretching limits" applies to every facet of your life, not just play. And like a gemstone, your flaws will be cut away.
* that the energy expended towards meeting the demands of submission binds you closer to your Master.
* painfully identifying and eliminating the vanilla baggage that creates obstacles between the person you are and the submissive your Master desires.
* accepting daily disciplines, both directional and physical, and recognizing they focus and strengthen your commitment.
* realizing as self-seeking is replaced by service, your life becomes filled with direction and purpose.
* that personal struggles with lifestyle issues opens you to deep acceptance of others lifestyle choices.
* that the "giving up" you once feared becomes transformed to a joyful embrace of your enslavement.
by kharita
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